Harry Hamlin Stands By Lisa Rinna’s Divisive RHOBH Moments Following Her Departure

Harry Hamlin Fiercely Defends Lisa Rinna’s RHOBH Controversies and “Disastrous” Social Media on WWHL

In a memorable and highly anticipated appearance on Bravo’s Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen on January 19, celebrated actor Harry Hamlin stepped into the hot seat to unequivocally defend his wife, Lisa Rinna. Known for his stoic demeanor and occasional appearances on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills (RHOBH), Hamlin, 71, proved he is his wife’s most ardent supporter, tackling some of her most controversial moments from her eight-season tenure on the hit reality series. The segment, aptly titled “Can! You! Defend Her!?”, challenged Hamlin to back up Rinna’s often-debated actions, and he rose to the occasion with unwavering loyalty, even confronting host Andy Cohen directly over his characterization of Lisa’s online presence.

From the outset, Andy Cohen, 54, wasted no time diving into one of the most talked-about incidents from RHOBH Season 12: Lisa Rinna’s exposure of Kathy Hilton’s alleged meltdown in Aspen. The dramatic events in Aspen became a central storyline, with Rinna claiming Hilton had an explosive outburst where she spoke negatively about several cast members, including her sister Kyle Richards. Rinna’s decision to bring these private claims to light on camera sparked intense debate among viewers and cast members alike, creating a significant rift within the group. When asked if he could defend Lisa’s actions in revealing these details, Hamlin’s response was immediate and firm: he “absolutely” could. This initial defense set the tone for the rest of his appearance, signaling that no matter the controversy, Hamlin would stand by his wife’s narrative and intentions. His confidence suggested he had either a deep understanding of Lisa’s motivations or an unshakeable belief in her truthfulness, regardless of public perception.

Lisa Rinna and Harry Hamlin
Lisa Rinna and Harry Hamlin at ‘The Hot Zone: Anthrax’ premiere in Nov. 2021 (Photo: Lev Radin/Pacific Press/Shutterstock)

The evening continued with Hamlin revisiting another iconic and tumultuous moment in RHOBH history: Lisa Rinna’s explosive confrontation with Kim Richards in Amsterdam during Season 5. This infamous argument saw Richards provocatively suggest, “Let’s talk about the husband!” — a remark that deeply unsettled both Lisa and Harry at the time, leading to intense speculation and emotional fallout. Hamlin defended Lisa’s reaction to the deeply personal attack, acknowledging the sensitivity surrounding the comment and its implications. His defense underscored the gravity of Richards’ statement and its impact on their marriage, framing Lisa’s subsequent anger as a natural and justifiable response. He also staunchly supported Lisa for confronting Garcelle Beauvais at the Season 11 reunion. The seemingly trivial dispute centered on Garcelle’s alleged failure to thank Harry for a jar of his homemade spaghetti Bolognese sauce. While seemingly minor compared to other scandals, this moment became a flashpoint at the reunion, with Lisa expressing genuine frustration. Hamlin’s defense highlighted the underlying dynamics of friendship and perceived slights within the group, validating Lisa’s feelings and turning a comedic moment into a point of contention that he, too, took seriously.

Perhaps the most heated exchange of the night came when Andy Cohen brought up Lisa Rinna’s highly scrutinized social media behavior. Lisa has long been known for her unfiltered and often provocative presence across various platforms, frequently engaging with fans, critics, and even fellow cast members in ways that have generated both applause and controversy. Cohen described her online antics as “disastrous,” a label that immediately drew a strong reaction from Hamlin. The Mayfair Witches star did not mince words, retorting, “Come on. That’s not fair. It’s not disastrous. She’s fantastic online. Her social media is great. What are you talking about?” Hamlin’s impassioned defense showcased his deep pride in Lisa’s digital savvy, contrasting sharply with Cohen’s assessment. This moment was particularly revealing, as it highlighted the subjective nature of judging celebrity social media and Hamlin’s steadfast belief in his wife’s self-expression. Interestingly, despite his enthusiastic defense, Hamlin then admitted he doesn’t even follow Lisa on Instagram, a revelation that brought a touch of humor to the intense discussion but didn’t detract from his core message of support. His stance suggested that while he may not engage with every post, he understands and supports her strategic use of the platform as part of her public persona.

Continuing his comprehensive defense, Harry also addressed Lisa’s involvement in the circulating rumors concerning Yolanda Hadid’s health, specifically the controversial suggestion that Hadid was suffering from Munchausen’s Syndrome. This particular storyline from Season 6 of RHOBH was incredibly contentious, raising questions about accountability, gossip, and the ethical lines drawn within reality television. Lisa had been criticized for seemingly propagating these rumors, which caused significant distress to Yolanda. However, Hamlin offered a nuanced explanation, stating, “She didn’t actually do that. She was given this book and was asked by another cast member to make mention of this word. But then she took the fall.” This defense reframed Lisa’s role, portraying her not as the instigator but as someone who was manipulated or encouraged by others to introduce a term into the conversation, ultimately bearing the brunt of the backlash. His explanation sought to absolve Lisa of full responsibility, suggesting she was caught in a larger web of cast dynamics and editorial influence, highlighting the often-complex nature of how storylines unfold and are attributed on reality television.

Lisa Rinna on RHOBH
Lisa Rinna on ‘RHOBH’ (Photo: Casey Durkin/Bravo)

Fans of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills are keenly aware that these will be some of the final RHOBH controversies Harry Hamlin will be defending, as Lisa Rinna has officially announced her departure from the show after an impactful eight-season run. Her exit, confirmed via email to HollywoodLife following a particularly turbulent Season 12, marks the end of an era for the franchise. Season 12 saw Rinna embroiled in multiple high-profile conflicts, most notably with Kathy Hilton, and faced significant criticism for her social media activity and the perceived intensity of her on-screen presence. This season proved to be a pivotal point, culminating in her decision to step away. In her statement, Lisa expressed gratitude for her time on the show, saying, “This is the longest job I have held in my 35-year career and I am grateful to everyone at Bravo and all those involved in the series. It has been a fun 8-year run and I am excited for what is to come!” Her departure, which commenced in 2014, leaves a significant void in the cast, as Rinna became synonymous with dramatic confrontations, memorable taglines, and a fearless approach to reality television, often credited with stirring the pot and keeping storylines moving. Her absence will undoubtedly reshape the dynamic of future seasons, prompting speculation about who might fill her shoes or how the remaining cast members will adapt.

In the wake of her dramatic exit, Lisa Rinna further clarified her stance in a candid interview with Interview Magazine, emphasizing that her departure from The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills is definitive and not merely a “pause.” This firm declaration dispelled any rumors that she might eventually return, a common occurrence for Housewives who take a temporary break. “I think everything Housewives has to go away for a while, which is good,” she stated, suggesting a broader need for a reset in her professional life beyond just the show. She then emphatically added, “It’s time for a break. Not a pause, I don’t go on pause. You don’t put me on pause. I go bye-bye.” This forceful language underscored her commitment to moving forward, signaling a clear separation from the franchise that had defined a significant portion of her career. Her unapologetic tone resonated with her on-screen persona, reinforcing her reputation as someone who makes decisive choices and stands by them. Lisa’s exit signifies a major shift for both her career trajectory and the future direction of RHOBH, prompting fans and critics alike to ponder the legacy she leaves behind and the new opportunities that await her.

Harry Hamlin’s unwavering support for Lisa Rinna throughout her reality TV journey has always been a testament to their enduring marriage. His appearance on WWHL served as a powerful reminder of his role not just as her husband, but as her fiercest advocate against the backdrop of reality television’s often brutal public scrutiny. Whether defending her dramatic confrontations, her online persona, or her involvement in cast controversies, Hamlin consistently presented a united front, offering insights and context from his perspective. His willingness to engage with Andy Cohen’s pointed questions and challenge his framing of Lisa’s actions further solidified his reputation as a supportive and protective partner. As Lisa Rinna embarks on a new chapter post-RHOBH, moving beyond the spotlight of reality television, she does so with the knowledge that Harry Hamlin will continue to be her steadfast ally, ready to defend her legacy and celebrate her future endeavors, whatever they may be.