Bunnie XO and Jelly Roll’s Heartfelt Decision: Welcoming Children Via Surrogacy in 2025
In an emotional and deeply personal revelation, Bunnie XO, the outspoken host of the popular ‘Dumb Blonde’ podcast, recently shared exciting news about her and husband Jelly Roll’s plans to expand their family. During a candid episode, Bunnie, whose real name is Bunnie DeFord, disclosed that while she will not be carrying the baby herself, the couple is actively pursuing parenthood through surrogacy, with a target date for implantation set for February 2025. This heartfelt announcement has resonated with fans, shedding light on their journey and commitment to becoming parents.
The journey to parenthood is unique for every couple, and for Jelly Roll, 39, the GRAMMY-nominated artist, and his wife Bunnie, 44, it’s a path marked by careful consideration, immense love, and a focus on well-being. The couple, known for their authentic and open relationship, have embarked on the IVF (In Vitro Fertilization) route, a significant step in their family planning. Bunnie recounted a pivotal conversation she had with Jelly Roll “a couple months ago” that solidified their decision to pursue having children.
The Genesis of a Dream: A Shared Vision for Family
Bunnie vividly recalled her personal reflection that led to the conversation with her husband. She shared, “I feel like I’ve accomplished so much in my life. And the only thing that’s left is to raise a baby and garden. I’m in my baby mama (and) gardening era.” This introspective moment highlighted a deep-seated desire to embrace a new chapter focused on nurturing life, both in a garden and within their home. What surprised her most was Jelly Roll’s immediate and enthusiastic response.
His reply was not what she anticipated. She recalled his unequivocal support: “I would love to have a baby with you.” This profound statement left Bunnie pleasantly shocked. She pressed him further, asking, “Wow really? Have you always felt like that?” To which Jelly Roll responded with characteristic sincerity, “Yeah, I will always have a baby with you. If you want to have a baby, cool. If you don’t, cool. Whatever you want to do.” This exchange underscored the unwavering bond and mutual respect that defines their relationship, proving that their decision to have children is a truly shared dream, born from a place of deep love and understanding.
Jelly Roll’s excitement about becoming a dad again is palpable. He is already a loving father to his daughter, Bailee Ann, and son, Noah, and his eagerness to welcome another child into their lives speaks volumes about his paternal instincts and commitment to family. Bunnie emphasized that despite the public nature of their lives, they intend to keep many aspects of their surrogacy journey private, cherishing this precious time as they navigate the path to parenthood.
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Prioritizing Well-being: The Decision for Surrogacy
Bunnie was remarkably transparent about her reasons for choosing a surrogate, emphasizing the critical importance of mental and emotional health. “I’m just going to be honest with you guys. I am not going to carry the baby,” she stated on her podcast. She elaborated on her past struggles, explaining, “I am not mentally well enough to let my hormones get out of whack. … I have gotten to a place where I’m even-keeled. My anxiety is finally good. I don’t have depression — of course I have down days and stuff like that, but nothing like what I went through in 2019.” Her candor offers a powerful message about self-awareness and prioritizing personal stability, especially when considering the profound physiological and psychological changes that come with pregnancy.
This decision is not only rooted in her mental health journey but also in a history of challenging pregnancy experiences. Bunnie further highlighted, “there is nothing wrong with having a surrogate” and firmly emphasized that she “would have trouble carrying a baby.” She courageously revealed having “lost many babies” in the past, including instances of miscarriage and ectopic pregnancies. These deeply painful experiences, combined with her and Jelly Roll’s incredibly demanding schedules, led to the pragmatic conclusion that carrying a pregnancy herself would be too risky both emotionally and physically.
Bunnie explained the difficulty of balancing their high-profile careers with the emotional toll of potential complications: “we don’t have the time to go through that because my hectic schedule does not allow for me to … have another miscarriage or ectopic pregnancy.” This statement reflects a mature and responsible approach to family planning, acknowledging the realities of their lives and making choices that protect both her health and their future child’s well-being. By choosing surrogacy, they are proactively creating a stable and joyful environment for their forthcoming children, avoiding unnecessary stress and heartbreak.
Looking Ahead: Hopes for the Future and the February 2025 Timeline
As they look to the future, Bunnie and Jelly Roll are immersed in the exciting details of their family expansion. When asked about the number of children they hope for, Bunnie shared their current thoughts: they’re “on the fence of having twins.” She added, “We think we want to have twin boys. I’m not sure. We could have one, we could have two. We don’t know what we’re going to do yet.” This playful uncertainty shows the natural evolution of their plans, allowing room for dreams while remaining flexible to the realities of the IVF process.
What remains firm is their timeline. “We don’t plan on implanting until February 2025,” Bunnie confirmed. This gives them ample time to prepare, both logistically and emotionally, for this monumental step. The anticipation builds for their fans, who have long admired the couple’s genuine connection and supportive relationship. The decision to pursue surrogacy is a testament to their unwavering commitment to each other and their shared dream of building a larger family, ensuring that their children are brought into the world in the healthiest and most loving environment possible.
Bunnie XO and Jelly Roll’s openness about their surrogacy journey not only invites their audience into a very personal chapter of their lives but also helps destigmatize alternative paths to parenthood. Their story highlights the fact that modern families are built in many ways, and prioritizing one’s health while pursuing the dream of children is a valid and commendable choice. As they eagerly await February 2025, the love and excitement surrounding this couple’s journey will undoubtedly continue to inspire many.