Stephen “tWitch” Boss’s Heartbreaking Legacy: Unveiling His Suicide Note and “Past Challenges”
The sudden and tragic passing of Stephen “tWitch” Boss sent shockwaves through the entertainment industry and left millions of fans in mourning. A beloved dancer, choreographer, and the iconic DJ for The Ellen DeGeneres Show, tWitch’s death on December 13, 2022, was particularly devastating. A new report has shed further light on the circumstances, revealing that tWitch reportedly left a suicide note. According to TMZ, the note vaguely referenced “past challenges” he had been contending with, offering a poignant glimpse into the internal struggles of a man who consistently radiated joy and positivity to the world.
Law enforcement sources indicated that the note was discovered at the Los Angeles motel where Stephen “tWitch” Boss took his own life at the age of 40. While the existence of the note provides some insight, its ambiguous nature — failing to specify the exact details of these “past challenges” — has only intensified the collective grief and confusion surrounding his unexpected departure. This tragic revelation underscores the complex realities of mental health, often hidden behind even the brightest smiles.
tWitch, best known globally for his dynamic presence as the DJ on The Ellen DeGeneres Show, was found deceased by the LAPD on Tuesday, December 13. LAPD Sergeant Borihana confirmed to HollywoodLife that officers responded to an ambulance death at the motel where tWitch had checked in, with the dispatch occurring at 11:30 p.m. “The decedent’s death was ruled a suicide and no foul play was involved. The body was handed over to the LA County Coroner,” the sergeant stated, officially confirming the tragic end to his vibrant life and ruling out any suspicious circumstances.
Further details regarding his passing were confirmed by the coroner’s report from the Los Angeles County Medical Examiner. The report specified that tWitch died from a “gunshot wound to the head,” reinforcing the conclusion that no foul play was involved. This official determination brought a stark finality to the heartbreaking news, leaving friends, family, and fans grappling with the profound shock and sadness of losing such an effervescent personality.
A Journey Through Dance: From SYTYCD to Stardom
Stephen “tWitch” Boss’s journey to becoming a beloved public figure began with his exceptional talent as a dancer. Hailing from Montgomery, Alabama, tWitch first captivated audiences on the fourth season of So You Think You Can Dance (SYTYCD) in 2008, where he finished as the runner-up. His distinctive style, a powerful fusion of hip-hop, popping, and locking, combined with an undeniable stage presence, made him an instant fan favorite. He wasn’t just a dancer; he was a storyteller, an innovator, and a beacon of joy on the dance floor.
His influence on SYTYCD extended beyond his initial competition run. tWitch returned to the show numerous times as an All-Star, sharing his expertise and inspiring new generations of dancers. Later, he also served as a judge, offering insightful critiques and nurturing talent with his characteristic warmth. Beyond television, his dance prowess led him to the big screen, with notable roles in films such as the Step Up franchise and Magic Mike XXL. His career was a testament to his dedication, versatility, and the sheer passion he held for movement, making him a true icon in the global dance community.
The Heartbeat of The Ellen DeGeneres Show
While his dance career launched him into the spotlight, it was his role on The Ellen DeGeneres Show that cemented Stephen “tWitch” Boss as a household name. He joined the show in 2014 as a guest DJ, and his infectious energy and undeniable chemistry with Ellen quickly made him an indispensable part of the program. He evolved from a DJ to a co-executive producer and a trusted co-host, becoming Ellen’s right-hand man and a constant source of laughter and positive vibes for millions of viewers worldwide.
For nearly a decade, tWitch was more than just a background presence; he was the show’s heartbeat. His segments, often featuring spontaneous dance breaks, engaging interviews, and his genuine interactions with guests and audience members, became hallmark moments of the show. He brought a unique blend of professionalism, humility, and exuberant joy to every episode. Even during challenging times for the show, tWitch remained a steadfast and loyal presence, embodying the show’s message of kindness and demonstrating his unwavering dedication to his colleagues and his craft. His absence leaves an irreplaceable void, not only for Ellen and the show’s crew but for the countless viewers who started their days with his uplifting energy.
In the wake of this profound loss, tWitch’s widow, Allison Holker, a dancer herself and his loving partner, shared a deeply touching statement with People. Her words painted a vivid and heartbreaking picture of the man she knew and loved. “Stephen lit up every room he stepped into. He valued family, friends and community above all else and leading with love and light was everything to him. He was the backbone of our family, the best husband and father, and an inspiration to his fans,” Allison beautifully expressed. This heartfelt tribute highlighted tWitch’s profound impact not just as a performer, but as a devoted family man and a source of unwavering support and inspiration for those around him.
Allison concluded her poignant message with a tender and symbolic promise: “Stephen, we love you, we miss you, and I will always save the last dance for you.” This sentiment resonated deeply with fans, acknowledging their shared passion for dance and the incredible bond they shared. She also made an earnest plea for privacy for herself and tWitch’s three children: Weslie, 14, Maddox, 6, and Zaia, 3. “I am certain there won’t be a day that goes by that we won’t honor his memory. We ask for privacy during this difficult time for myself and especially for our three children,” she reiterated, emphasizing the immense need for space and respect as their family navigates this unimaginable grief.
An Outpouring of Tributes from Across Hollywood
The news of tWitch’s death prompted an immediate and widespread outpouring of grief and heartfelt tributes from celebrities and colleagues across the entertainment industry. Many who had the privilege of working alongside him shared their personal memories, highlighting his talent, kindness, and infectious spirit. From the world of dance, fellow SYTYCD stars and judges such as JoJo Siwa, Paula Abdul, Matthew Morrison, Leah Remini, Cat Deeley, and Maddie Ziegler all expressed their profound sadness and honored his memory. Their messages consistently spoke of his inspiring presence, his generous spirit, and the immense joy he brought to every set he graced, particularly during their time together on So You Think You Can Dance.
One of the most emotional tributes came from Ellen DeGeneres herself, who shared a deeply personal bond with tWitch. In a heartfelt Instagram post, accompanied by a photo of the two sharing a warm embrace, Ellen wrote: “I’m heartbroken. tWitch was pure love and light. He was my family, and I loved him with all my heart. I will miss him.” These poignant words from his closest colleague underscored the depth of their friendship and the irreplaceable void his passing has left in the lives of those who cherished him most. The outpouring of love and sorrow from Hollywood painted a clear picture of a man who was not only a gifted performer but also a genuinely kind and loving individual who touched countless lives.
A Call for Empathy and Mental Health Awareness
The tragic death of Stephen “tWitch” Boss, compounded by the mention of “past challenges” in his suicide note, serves as a powerful and painful reminder that outward appearances can often mask deep-seated internal struggles. His public persona was one of boundless energy, infectious laughter, and an unwavering commitment to spreading happiness. Yet, like many individuals who battle mental health issues, he carried burdens that remained largely invisible to his adoring audience and, perhaps, even to those closest to him. This heartbreaking event has reignited crucial conversations about the pervasive nature of mental health challenges, even among those who appear to have it all.
It underscores the critical importance of fostering open dialogues about mental well-being, actively working to reduce the stigma associated with seeking help, and recognizing that anyone, regardless of their public image or perceived success, can face profound emotional pain. tWitch’s enduring legacy, while now tinged with profound sadness, also becomes a powerful testament to the urgent need for greater empathy, understanding, and accessible resources for mental health support. His story compels us to check in on our loved ones, to listen without judgment, and to offer support, acknowledging that true strength often lies in vulnerability and reaching out for help.
Despite the tragic circumstances of his passing, Stephen “tWitch” Boss leaves behind an extraordinary legacy of dance, entertainment, and an unshakeable commitment to spreading love and light. His profound contributions to the arts and his unwavering kindness touched the lives of countless individuals, ensuring that his memory will continue to inspire and remind us of the preciousness of life and the paramount importance of compassion.
If you or someone you know is in crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255), or contact the Crisis Text Line by texting TALK to 741741.